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Spouse question

Yes, your non-resident spouse can be added as a dependent to increase your VA disability compensation, provided you meet specific criteria. Under 38 CFR 3.57(a), a spouse is generally recognized if the marriage is valid where celebrated and the spouse resides with you or was separated for reasons other than estrangement, willful desertion, or living apart for your mutual convenience. Since your separation is due to education and you maintain contact, this likely qualifies. You must formally add her using VA Form 21-686c and submit a marriage certificate plus proof of her residency (e.g., German identification). This action increases your monthly payment, as the VA includes a dependent allowance for a spouse (see 38 CFR 3.25). Importantly, adding her as a dependent is a prerequisite for her to potentially qualify for future survivor benefits like Dependency and Indemnity Compensation (DIC) under 38 U.S.C. § 1311, should your death be service-connected. Note that your disability compensation itself does not transfer to her upon your death; it ceases, but DIC is a separate survivor benefit. Your next step is to gather the required documentation and submit the application promptly, as increased payments are effective from the date of receipt, not the marriage date (aligned with the principle in *Mizrahi v. Principi*). **This information is for educational purposes only and does not constitute legal or medical advice; for definitive guidance, consult a Veterans Service Officer or accredited attorney.**

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What would this rating pay you? (2026 rates)

Official 2026 VA monthly compensation, including the 2.8% COLA increase.

per month ·  per year, tax-free

Dependent add-ons start at a 30% rating. Child-only and dependent-parent rates: see the full 2026 pay chart.

2026 base rates, all ratings (veteran alone)
RatingMonthly (2026, incl. 2.8% COLA)
10%$180.42
20%$356.66
30%$552.47
40%$795.84
50%$1,132.90
60%$1,435.02
70%$1,808.45
80%$2,102.15
90%$2,362.30
100%$3,938.58
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